City boy Matthew Yglesias is in Red America. I, too, once went to Red America. Rolla, MO, to be precise. I'm embarassed to say that I experienced culture shock. I got stared at constantly and I never figured out quite why. (Weird clothing? Paler skin and darker hair than most were used to seeing?) I didn't understand the twang. I paid a lot less than I ever had for shampoo. While this was not the first time I'd seen trailers or fast food restaurants, it was the first I'd seen them on such a large scale. In Blue America, WASP ancestry often means wealth. In Rolla, many people with hair naturally the shade of blond that Upper East Side women pay good money for were buying their clothes at Walmart. (Non-whites in Rolla were, it seemed, engineering students at the local university.) What stuck me most, and what definitively proved my NYC provinciality, was the role of religion, not just in conversation, but on billboards, and the huge number of churches. How could there be enough Rollans to fill that many churches? Was it like three to a church, or were some churches busy and others empty?
As a Blue-Stater in a Red State (or an urbanite in a rural area) there's really no acceptable reaction to your new surroundings. Either you sneer and note the lack of Vietnamese restaurants/museums/sample sales, and you're an elitist ("What, corn dogs again?"), or you bubble over with David Brooksian enthusiasm for wholesome exurbia, in which case you're seen as smug and patronizing, or as pro-rural only to make a political point ("Mmm, corn dogs!"). A rural person visiting a city can act either awed or horrified, and either reaction is generally considered to be understandable. So what's a stranded-feeling, smile-forcing Blue American to do? I'm not sure I can answer my own question here, so I'm leaving it up to my Red State readers (including the Rollans) to help me out on this one.
Friday, March 04, 2005
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Okay, I grew up in Tennessee as the child of Yankee expatriates, so I think I can answer this one: I'd suggest looking at the South like you would a foreign country about which you knew much of the language and some of the culture--like France. Where France is aggressively laique, much of the Red States is aggressively (Christian) religious. Few foreigners can understand either very fast French or a very thick mid-Appalachian accent. Personal relationships, even in commercial transactions, are valued. And some of them are still touchy about the war.
Hmmmm, no synagogues, I notice, on that very long list of places of worship.
Think I'll stay in new jersey.
Hmmmm, no synagogues, I notice, on that very long list of places of worship.
Think I'll stay in new jersey.
Learn something about sports. I grew up red and now live blue, and unfortunately it's really the only noncontraversial thing we have in commen to open conversation. Learn to ask "How about those (substitute local pro or college team)?"
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Vietnamese restaurants are overrated. That soup they serve is weird. The service is never very good. I prefer Thai.
Let me ask a question: if you had visited Missouri at any point before the terms "red-state" and "blue-state" had become part of the cultural mythology would you have felt as out of place? Most places you might visit are going to have cultural differences: it is after all a really big country, in a really big world. I think perception can be its own reality some times, and the popular notion that there are "red states" and "blue states", rather than an enormously complex blend of different cultures and conventions can make you overly attentive to differences that might not have seemed so ridiculous a few years ago.
I agree with JG: you wouldn't necessarily react so strongly if you visited Mexico or France or Japan. You would hopefully be aware of differences and slowly get used to them. Why is Missouri elevated to a place one can't understand?
I grew up in Northern New Jersey (about 1/2 hour bus ride to the city) and have lived in Northern Virginia, Pennsylvania, and the District of Columbia.
Now I live in South Carolina, which is only slightly more religious than Mississippi.
As posters above have mentioned, Christianity, football, and barbecue are pretty big down here. People smile and say hello just because you're another human being. The pace of life is laidback. There's a lot of small talk.
My advice? I urge openmindedness. There's nothing so limiting as jumping to conclusions about a place. An honest reaction--either, "that's different and it really sucks" or "what a charming habit!"--is a much more worthwhile take away than any predetermined judgment that might prevent you from seeing some of the subtleties of a new environment.
If I were in that situation, I would just stare right back at them. There's no need to try to ingratiate yourself to the locals, so just be polite and go about your business. The worst thing is to wear your culture shock on your sleeve - that's like wearing a giant sign that says, "I THINK YOU REDSTATERS ARE ALL WEIRD!!!"
The persistent complaint is that liberals seem uncomfortable in such earthy situations. Its one thing to prefer more sophisticated environs, but its another thing completely to be almost unable to function without those luxuries which, I think, is a legitimate comment.
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